When you make a decision to live with your girlfriend (boyfriend), you will hope that she (he) is the best partner and you want to make sure further little things. You have not ever seen her (his) private behaviours at home until live together.
I will assess 5 things whether if it is possible.
1. Political thoughts, which party do you support? I do not say which one is unacceptable in the public. But this can be a pretty a big division between me and him. I will not skip this query before living together. Holding this type of stress is unnecessary!
2. Favouritism in food. You could say, "You do not have to share the food, you can cook yours, or you can eating out." I wonder if he is a filmmaker, owner of a big company, pilot of a big vessel, or his work place has a free restaurant? If so, food may not make trouble in your relationship. If you have the time for breakfast, lunch or dinner together as a routine everyday, The food eventually invites their separation although, it is just my perspective. One of my ex boyfriends, he is white, artist, 10 older than me. He prefers tangy flavour in any category of food. I cooked curry one day. That became the spiciest one, He did not like many types of vegetables. He had stocks of particular herb tea. He has it like you have coffee. I tried it. I can not describe what was like it was the strongest in my experiences. I have no dislike food. I believe that every food has great nutritions. I do not complain food and him. What type of food are going to be a normal authentic between you and the partner is big.
I will continue about the other 3 tomorrow. Thank you for coming, Good night, x