In a train, airport, cafe, office, resort or festival... When you go somewhere, you might meet your potential future partner. I wonder why did you speak to him (her) at the first time? Most of the people gently nicely ignore you that is natural. There are hundreds or dozens people in your environment in any situations when going out from your home. You will have a chance to chat with the new person, who is just one of many many people. Why did you start the conversation with the person? I understand that it is not always who becomes your boyfriend or girlfriend. Nonetheless, the connection always begins with such a mysterious encounter. The beginning is easy. The reason would be one of below.
- Good looking
- Funny
- Favourite fashion /character
- Charismatic /famous
- Fate ( You may catch the sense immediately)
The new person might become your new friend, or more close special one. Then, how do you make a decision to live together as he (she) is the partner? To me, this could be a big big decision. And I have never ever done before. But I would check these points between me and him, if it happened.
- Which political party do you endorse?
- Favouritism in food
- Sense of humour
- Religious thoughts (Do you believe in gods?)
- Becoming the best friend hopefully
I will explain about above next time. Thank you for coming tonight, too. Have a great weekend.
Good night, x
